Therapist: "What Nate today?"
Lesbian love sick (LSL): "I Can't take it anymore ...I love her so much, but plays with my heart ... "
Therapist: "tell me more about this love."
LSL: "It's been going on for years and I don't know how to get over it. .. I don't know if it's love or Obsession ... or me just crazy? "
Therapist: "probably all these ... mixed in with some Infatuation."
LSL: "Help me. Please help to get over it? "
Funny? Not assigned. Every day I get at least one email from a woman sharing the exact process. She's telling me stressed about a woman who sometimes even more than the one she Can't let go of and holding on for months if not years, Is to imagine the time and energy we put into our "timeless" loves. Imagine, not only in the feelings and emotions, but sometimes hurting other relationships and financial results.
Might possibly set up as Crazy some narcotic drugs, and it would not be too far from the truth. Yet just as drugs allows us to consume us, until we have reached the very limits of space ... unless you truly believe, without a doubt, there was no hope of this woman. Sometimes the road is unrestricted as glimmers of hope are always within reach, how to achieve the objective of the toxic relationship infatuating?
Infatuation is very different, love and feelings that probably should not be confused with love, committed and love. When we're infatuated we completed with ofuncertainty feelings and panic, lust is at full throttle and anxiety zapycha us, we are impatient and easily heated to jealousy.
When we're infatuated we are almost in the sense of overdosed with love and are having a reaction of decryption. None of us can say that we are happy but in this zone as we are filled with feelings of doubt and of contempt for our "love toxic." We may become so used to that misery takes over and interferes in other areas of life: work, family and friends. We are often overpowered by the sexual urges and needs that Scream to meet.
Why don't we go crazy? Because when you meet a woman he brought too you have surge of energy that occurs in your brain, stimulation of parts, which are responsible for feelings of Euphoria and annexed. However, as fun as it may sound like the addict will become tolerant of this energy and start chasing a new high! Some of us jump from one relationship to another. Others create drama (Lesbian Drama Mamas) and self-sabotage build new benefits (Psychodykos) or move the nothing and less trusting than before (Les Runners), a drop in equivalent hole afterwards. See all words that can be identified?
How can we avoid this vicious circle of toxic Love? Simple, it should be possible to ride the River toward the romantic love. In other words, you need to change the way you express. We are so eager that we can get caught up in the moments that last months or years. We can forget about experiencing the feeling i can use to move between us. And we end up suffocating hold instead of on our feelings and become a rozczarowanych in the end.
Diet sick love
To know someone i trust him, go to take time.This moment for what it's "A Moment in time I want to FOREVER vs.."Always have a friendly environment and use them in case of doubt or hurting.Look at yourself. Examine the template of love.Talk to an advisor about issues co-dependency and the difficulty in letting go.The most important to know Your worth and believe that it is worth sharing with the right person at the right time and that Your "Infatuation" simply may not be (and is ideally have.)Alex Karydi ~ Lesbian Guru
I am an internationally Certified drug and alcohol counselor, who has been trained in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender LGBT issues. I write to Examiner.com as their expert relationship Lesbian and'm featured writer on SexGenderBody.com. My intention is to run the movement towards a healthier and more supportive Community! If you can find each other, LGBTs learn from each other and build a stronger system of support. Alone, I'm on a personal exploration in the discovery of a healthier relationship of gays and self-fulfillment.
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