Friday, August 5, 2011

Supporting our youth Gay

Walking down colleague back to Vice Principal, again, its about the detention of another State in accordance with the opinion I will life ever be any different. Sitting, staring at his lips and wondering what you'll do if he and his wife weekend (wants to be anywhere else but here), is delighted to give me another lecture on I'm as thin and will end with him. jadam He expressed concern that despite eating disorders and is trying to prepare the fat on me.

Sitting in the Office, fifteen years later, I feel the State with the opinion of, layoffs these days are behind me. You may not pay me enough money to return to school or to be a teenager. As far as Mr. Jones, he was right, I had bad eating and not decrypted I was about to give them to anyone, and eat the finished. Anyway, I felt like I was in favour of ± that I have control over.

Most days I felt that they lived outside of my institution and so he was very much alone and it seemed that my father was the only person who can see through me. Says, "are different Alex and this world is not similar to those which are contrary to them. Try not to be so different, because I don't want you to suffer for him. I want to have a good life. "

I will be crying on the bed most nights, I was hating the body in and ideas, which raced through his head. I can not figure out what was different about me, except that each piece me felt alien. I guess that's what being a teenager is.

It was during this time I knew, such as girls, but I was too immature and frankly too tired to care of malnutrition. However, the unexpected halt, fantasizing, which took place in his head. I remember listening to my album Boyz 2 men (I know, I'm old as dirt!), imagining the slow Dance with a woman and kissing her. It was the belief that exposing me at ease, only images that would relax me. I can't believe that I am now thirty actually My fantasy that my dream came true and I have my very own perfect love, waiting for me at home.

Has not been an easy journey. Coming out was a difficult struggle and still is today, especially those living in the country and in the USA. In today's society we have so many LGBT youth to overcome. Risks include gender conformity, lack of support, School dropout, family problems, including victimization surveys, homelessness, substance use, eating disorders, religious discrimination, negative sexual experience and attempts suicide (two to three times more likely to attempt suicide than their heterosexual counterparts).

The latest news in the past few years has been highlighted, LGBT youth are often bullied at school and will not be able to receive suitable education. They are shamed and referred to the abuse. They are more likely to skip school out of fear, threats and vandalism directed at them. Twenty-eight percent of gay students will drop out of school. This is a more than three times the national average for students moving. Four out of five gay and lesbian students says that you do not know one adult support at school.

So here are some things to consider and support, which has become self empowered?

Know that a Gay or Lesbian is not a pathological condition (i.e. it is not a mental illness or disability) origin, sexual orientation is not known.Gays and lesbians persons satisfying and satisfying life lead.They are many ways you can choose to live a life of LGBTQ.Unless they have been seeking counseling to "change" sexual orientation, although you can never therapist in this way (it is unethical and report them to the Board licensing.)

If you are a teen, lives at home, in the case of homophobia, here are some more steps you take and ask yourself:

Is it safe to parents? SAFETY first, even as incentives that may be, if you feel that it can be placed in danger hold.Coming out would jeopardize Your home situation?Are you physically, emotionally secure and psychologically if you come out to the parents?Do you have other resources available, such as money and emotional help if forthcoming developments from home?Try and educate parents on issues of discrimination against LGBT PEOPLE, often triggered, but ignorance and not understanding the unknown.Get help and find people who can talk, for which they are safe. Being gay can be a lonely journey, but with a proper company may produce stronger and be wiser.

The ultimate objective is to find growing up and development of mankind, and divide the difference that nas and isolating others, creating a unity and a sense of oneness.

Alex Karydi ~ Lesbian Guru

I am an internationally Certified drug and alcohol counselor, who has been trained in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender LGBT issues. I write to Examiner.com as their expert relationship Lesbian and'm featured writer on SexGenderBody.com. My intention is to run the movement towards a healthier and more supportive Community! If you can find each other, LGBTs learn from each other and build a stronger system of support. Alone, I'm on a personal exploration in the discovery of a healthier relationship of gays and self-fulfillment.

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