Some of us are gay parade and other are safe in the type the maximum, but somehow it all boils regularly to "please forgive me, I'm Gay". I know, the paraders, such as Think that they are released, but then the liberated means that you do not need to make a statement already; No parades to their sexuality (heterosexuals). I know that many of us get irritated with closeters, but if your life, social security, or job depends on it, we'll all stay in the closet.
Asking forgiveness for where I can shove My demo in the privacy of my own private and paid to the bedroom is ridicules, and yet is where we stand. Why would kiss My hubby to the public, if I risk my life to do this? There is no honor in being stupid. Yet we all long for a place where to show my affection in public without risking My jawbone to him. That is why we love our gay clubs and gay bars-is the closest thing we have a normal winter, but it is normal to only one or four clubs in exactly the same type of people where they can relax? Probably is not.
I here by saying "so what?" and you are right, but still, this means that the public will decide where I can relax and unwind, or not. Each time we can get right is the right of gay outing.
* Right: of course you can yourself publicly; Addendum: just go to your club to do so.
* Right: of course you can yourself in our drink bar; Addendum: you need to know is that we don't want to defend, if some Nazi will haywire.
* Right: of course you can get married; Addendum: but not in accordance with the law, we can develop a partnership as normal for the network type.
* Right: of course you can adopt children; Addendum: implementing just that social services will be the situation with the double standard.
* Right: of course you can follow children from the House limit for children at the weekend; Addendum: as long as they are lesbians (do you hear a pair of moving home: as long as they are simple?).
* Right: of course you can join our Club/Church/membership; Addendum: just be discreet about Your sexuality.
At the end we will continue to wait for our "me."
So what are we to do? Start a parade? Keep in the closet?
We are sorry it makes no difference what so ever; and don't tell me that they manage.
My proposal is still that should we come out and Show the world we are many. Perhaps a way to show how normal is our deficiency. To this end, to change the world for us, we need to help each other come out. Will we have to take other manually and help them with difficulties coming out. Dealing with parents, children, co-workers, family and friends are not easy, but a lot of us already went through it and survived; We have a lot of experience between us, and we can easily give advice and support.
That sounds about right?
Then why do we fight for gay people to engage in worthy causes, which benefits us all. We are a lot of Selfish people who cannot make any contribution to the survival of humanity, as some people suggest a straight?
Andrew Blade is a family therapist about issues related to gay. See more at http://www.facebook.com/cobragay
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