Homophobia literally means fear of homos, in this case homosexuals, but not as a word stands for in our culture. In our times homophobia refers to a range of negative attitudes towards the LGBT community in General; This means discrimination, hatred, aggression, dehumanization, fear, negative and anger against us. Often these negative attitudes are based on the urban myths like the idea that gay men straight men will rape or worse, molest young boys. The fact that most rapists and pedophiles are simple, does not change anything; As with all myths are not interested, these statements of facts.
Phobia of this decision was coined by homophobes, arguing that they are not against homosexuals as such but against a group of homosexuals, which threaten their moving society by asking some basic human rights. The questions on the equal right to get married in this perspective because the existence of the moving of the family and everything he stands for. This decision, this is why the silly phobia term use against basic rights for homosexuals.
Academically interesting because the definitions above may be, surely this article about-fortunately not. This article is about the effect that this had on the families involved.
My dear MOM and Dad
I am writing a letter because I want to, you can say many things before ask questions, get mad and start crying. Don't worry, this is something you do, nor is it something I did, is just something that happened and still I'm trying it; I hope really that can help in this.
Mom, Dad; I am gay.
I need you to remain calm if they really. I have read everything I could lay my hands on homosexuality. We can say that I am now an expert in the field, I know what I found. Please give me a chance for the whole article, but the first introduction:
First, I want you to understand that this is not just something. MOM, you did not make me gay, being over protective and Tata, it was not performed because the user cannot always be there. Dad, additional football, clothes, cowboy, or a course in mechanics would not have changed anything; not allowing me to help in the garage is not a reason. MOM, teach me to cook there was no reason; allowing me to help in the kitchen when the didn't help Dad in the garage did not make any difference.
Secondly, you should understand that this is not something that I did. Not happening I can lose friends erroneous since friends can not cause of gays. Not happening, and was playing tonight as a child, or playing with the wrong men, when I got older. It is not because I went to the wrong places outside of the Church either don't like pastor.
MOM and Dad, I'm not gay because you either did nothing wrong and; I was born this way. If you blame someone, guess could blame God, and no, I'm not judging God or making fun of him. I'm just explaining to you that if God created me, then he created me like this; created me gay. I'm also not mad at him for that purpose. I really enjoy being gay and I think that because me so that I enjoy so much. I'm really thanking him for making me gay because I don't want to be anything else. All of the people who actually went to this topic will show you that the person does not have this option; The birth of gay men.
Do you know how do I find this to be true? I know this because I noticed that I was different long before I knew what homosexuality meant. Always liked boys more, and when the band began as the girls more, I still wanted to embed boys. In the gym when the boys had to change their clothes, and I can't stop staring. Do you remember in grade 8 when his father Joe stole the porno and we observed in our TV? All boys had when they saw the first woman naked in this movie, and I don't understand what could have been raving about it until the first Naked Man; the point at which I raved about it my friends looked at me as if I were mad. There are so many other threads could tell you about this, but you're talking about another day. They were all I wanted to show that I was gay even before I knew what meant is gay.
I think I have made this easier, would it really be to face, but was too scared of what would be Your reaction. Do you know how Scary is the baby amused at the idea that intends to get rid of him, his parents? Do you know how scared that I'm losing you ", the idea being rejected by user or never are in a position held by the user? It is, without a doubt, scariest thoughts that sixteen-year-old boy as I ever could have. I I i try to understand; I know how difficult it will be, but remember, the acceptance of My reproductive will always be easier than the rejection of all humankind's going to be me. Please don't reject me and please don't stop loving me. I promise you that if this were merely a choice, I never would. Why on earth would anyone knowingly choose hated by 80% of the population?
Mrs. love gay son
(Fortunately for me I had to send the letter never edit)
Andrew Blades-founding Member and sex therapist on the Cobra group. His speciality is the sexology gays and lesbians. On could read more of his articles:
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